One thing to know is that when you are apologizing to someone you have hurt deeply, you need to be at your honest-best in explaining your feelings: being completely sincere about what you’re saying or apologizing for. And in doing that, you have to be personal and specific: stating unequivocally exactly how much he or she means to you.
Try not to be proud or egoistic; acknowledge your wrongs by letting your lover know what you have done that has brought about the action or reaction from him or her.
Own your actions by not playing the blame game. It might interest you to know that you may also not find an apology welcoming if the one apologizing is still trying to blame you for what or what ought not.
Be genuine also. Remember that your lover knows you too well to know when you’re still trying to pretend about what you ought to be sorry about, and he or she will be able to tell if you are truly sorry or not.
And in so doing, you have to use words like ‘I am sorry for making you act the way you did’ rather than ‘you are the one that made me act the way I did’. Instead, go straight to the facts and state how badly it has affected the relationship you both have been enjoying over time.
Now, if you are up for the apology and your spouse or significant other doesn’t even want to have a look at it, there are a lot of touching ways to go about it that’ll almost definitely melt the heart of the offended to listen to you, read you, or hear you out. That’s where we come in.
Tips on how to send touching apology messages to your love.
Picking up one of the several messages below, the first step is sending a direct sms, email, voice mail, or placing a phone call through. You can also script the words in a card or sticky note place it within the reach of your lover’s pathway – somewhere your partner will see it soon.
In the alternative, you can place it on your lover’s pillow, bedroom desk, fridge, mirror, computer, cell phone, laptop, any other device he or she uses daily, or work station – within the home. Let your lover see your apology in every nook and corner of the house.
Another option is by sending him or her gifts/flowers/chocolates, buying a movie ticket for you both, booking a table at a nice restaurant, amongst others your ideas may work on. Cliché it may be, but it’s a trick that has never gone out of vogue, and it still works.
Finally, you give your lover some time to think through the apology and come to terms with his or her emotions. He or she is human, and would definitely know when you mean what you say.
Read on to find touching apologies your spouse, lover, or significant other would find meaningful.
Apology Text Messages for Him or Her
Even if you’re not the one at fault, love sometimes demands that you be the 1st to say sorry after a disagreement. So I helped with these apologize messages to my love that you can send to say sorry.
1. My darling. Can you ever forgive me? I never knew I hurt you that badly. You mean the world to me, and I am very sorry for my actions.
2. I am sorry my love…I need you back in my life…please forgive me for all my wrongs and accept me back into your space.
3. I have been such a pain to you, and I allowed your love for me becomes a means for me to be naughty towards you. Your tears are too precious to be wasted because of me; please forgive.
4. I tried apologizing to your person, but I sensed I had wronged you so bad that you weren’t interested in seeing me again. Please forgive me for all of my annoying habits. I promise to be a better person.
5. Baby, I am sorry for everything I did. I promise to do whatever it takes to keep you in my arms now and always. I love you, my love.
6. Sweetheart, I didn’t mean to cause you so much pain. I promise to be a better lover. Kindly forgive me for being so unbecoming.
7. My love, this life has been incomplete without you. Please forgive me and come back home. Please.
8. You mean the world to me, and I want to do everything I can to make it up to you for last week’s mess. I am so sorry my darling; I want to be back in your arms.
9. My love, I know I’ve been on your nerves lately, and I am sorry for not being able to control my excesses. It’s because I love you so much.
10. The tantrum I threw at you the other day was so unlike me and it was hurting for me to carry it out against. You didn’t deserve it my love, and I am submitting my heartfelt apology to your hands.
11. My baby, I am sorry for arguing with you. It’s just that I want the best of things to happen in your life. I am so sorry for stepping on your feelings. Please forgive me, baby.
12. I know it seems as though I’ve been ignoring you. I’m sorry. I’ve been loaded with projects and submissions (or state a more peculiar reason) in the last few weeks. But I promise that we will spend happy, fun, and naughty times once this week is over. I promise.
13. Darling, I promise I’ll think before I speak next time. You know I did not mean any of the things I said to you yesterday, don’t you? I need you in my life, and I’m very sorry about the words thrown at you.
14. What do I have to do to make you believe that there’s nothing going on between me and the new guy/girl at work? I am sorry I have not kept you in the know of things recently; I guess it must have been a complete oversight. But trust me when I say I really love you.
15. Darling, you are the sweetest, cutest, and hottest guy/girl I know, and I will do anything and everything it takes for you to forgive me. I am sorry for what I did (state what you did). Please, I have missed your kisses.
16. I am sorry for becoming unnecessarily jealous and possessive of you lately. I’m sorry. I guess it’s because I’m afraid other guys/girls will pounce over hot stuff like you. However, I promise not to get worked up and lose my temper again the way I did yesterday.
17. Who has the best body? You. Who is the most handsome/beautiful guy/lady? You. Who is the hottest bloke? You. Who is the coolest? You. Who is the most understanding boyfriend/girlfriend ever? You. Who is going to forgive me quickly? You. I am sorry!
18. I feel like the worst person in the world right now. I am truly sorry for shouting at you, and I promise I’ll never do it again. Forgive me, my love.
19. Darling, I am sorry for getting angry at you for no reason. I’ll do whatever it takes to keep you in my arms. I love you.
20. I’m heartbroken and can’t believe I lied to you. I know I will never be able to make it up to you. But at least let me try by sending my apology. I am sorry my love, I will never do it again.
21. I am really sorry for everything I did at the party last weekend that offended you. I didn’t mean to hurt you. You will forgive your darling boyfriend/girlfriend. Won’t you?
22. My darling, I didn’t mean to be such a possessive boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s just that I love you a bit too much. I promise to tone down my behaviour henceforth. Do forgive me.
23. It hurts me to see you like this, knowing that I’m the cause of all these. Please accept my apology and give me something reliving to smile about. I am very sorry.
24. I know you are angry right now. But when you get a moment to reflect on what has happened, I want you to think about all the good times we’ve had, all the happy memories we’ve shared, and what we still plan to achieve together in the nearest future. I am so sorry my love.
25. I am terribly sorry my love. I do hope you can forgive me.
26. I don’t know what to say but to apologize for being such a jerk. I hope you look beyond this mistake and forgive me. Love you, babe.
27. I have become too clingy of late. It isn’t my plan to be that at all. It seems as though I miss you so much that every second away seems like a year without you. I love you, I miss you, and I am sorry.
28. I’m sorry for being a bit clingy. It’s just that I can’t stop thinking about you!
29. The demands I’ve been making on you lately are totally ill-timed and completely uncalled for. I am so sorry, and I hope you will take me back in your arms again. I miss that tender spot on your shoulder, honey. Can you please forgive me?
30. I am the only one who needs to apologize for the troubles we’ve had this week. I am sorry, and I hope we can get back to being the happiest couple in town. I love you, darling.
31. I shouldn’t have been so angry when you came in late last night. I’ve fixed a delicious brekky for you, and look forward to spending a lovely evening with you after we’re both back from work. Love you tons! Forgive me, darling.
32. Sorry for being such a pain in the neck the other day. If I don’t offend you, who will? I’m all you’ve got baby.
33. I haven’t been able to understand myself of late. I believe there is something I’m reacting to which I’m unable to find out, but it has gravely affected my relationship with you. Please, forgive me for being so annoying. I’m sorry darling.
34. Please forgive me. There’s nothing else I can say to ask for your forgiveness. I’m sorry my love.
35. My darling, the last few weeks has been hard for me, and I have been unable to act as the supportive person I promised you I will be. Please, let’s put the past behind us so I can be able to pamper you both in and out of the bedroom.
36. If I say I am not responsible for the ways you’ve been acting up of late, I lie and the truth is not in me. Please, forgive me quickly so I can make the rest of the week better for both of us. You know I love you and would never plan to hurt you.
37. I accept that I caused the arguments we’ve had recently and I apologize for it. But can you imagine a life without arguments and fights? It would be a dull life, don’t you think? So please accept my apology, and you can thank me later for bringing some colour into our married lives.
38. Baby, I am honestly tired of the frictions going on between us in recent times. You and I know it hasn’t been healthy for us and affected our lovely relationship. I am willing to do what it takes to work through this rough patch so we both can be emotionally happy again.
39. My love, please forgive me for all of my unbecoming attitudes. I am honestly sorry, and I want to reassure you this very moment that I love you from the bottom of my heart.
40. I never realized how bad I’d taken you for granted and undermined your intelligence and wisdom over the years until we became apart for a few weeks. Now, my life has become incomplete without you, I’ve learned my lesson, and I am crawling to let you know how sorry I am.
41. I haven’t been taking enough responsibility for my actions for a long time coming now, and I have decided to stop blaming you for all our problems; because I’ve realized that I’m at fault, and I am ready to put an end to all the fights and arguments. I am sorry my darling.
42. I know I’ve been far from a true gentleman. But today I’m taking the first step to being the man of your dreams by writing this apology. I’m sorry for not spending enough time with you. To begin to make it up, I’ve planned a romantic evening for us.
43. I know there is nothing I can do to make up for my behaviour over the last few weeks. So I got a gift for you. Hope you like it and will forgive me because I love you, and you know it’s true!
44. The world’s most beautiful wife deserves the world’s most tender apology. I’m sorrier than I have ever been. Forgive me, darling.
45. My darling. The recent challenges I have encountered has affected my relationship with you. I’m sorry darling. You know I love you as much as I say it to you.
46. I am very sorry for hurting and offending you badly. Please, find a place in your heart to forgive me.
47. Forget all quarrels and offenses, and let us stay together forever!!! I want to see you so much! I want to hug you and look into your beautiful eyes!
48. I feel so sad without you. I wish I never had that quarrel with you. I am sorry my love.
49. My darling, kindly forgive me for being so rude. Sorry for the pain I’ve caused you. If you can, forgive me.
50. There is a possibility that this misunderstanding between us can degenerate into a cold war that will cause us to be excessively angry with one another. Please, forgive me. Please.
51. Before you leave and never return, think one more time. It is better to forgive everything and be happy than lose your happiness because of one little misunderstanding. Please, let’s calm down and talk. I am very sorry.
52. Forgive me, my love, for writing to you, but I repeat again and again that I love you and miss you!
53. I will do anything you want. Come back to me as soon as you can! Come back, please! I’m begging! We will lose our love and regret it…
54. Forgive me for all the troubles I have caused… Frankly speaking, I kiss your photo every day before I go to bed. I wish I could have a second chance.
55. My bae, before you take offense, think one more time. It is better to smile and forgive than slam the door in front of our happiness.
56. If you will agree with me, we were both wrong in the way we treated each other over the recent issue. Let’s forgive ourselves and learn from our mistakes. Trust me, please; I will never make this mistake again!
57. My heart is heavy; I am silently looking out of the empty window now. Excuse me for the stupid words and actions, please do not be mad at me!
58. The heart does not want to believe that you are far away from me now. My pain cannot be measured. I hope you will forgive me!
59. I want to stand before you on my knees. I want to apologize. Today I realized that without your love and forgiveness, it makes no sense for me to go on living.
60. After our quarrel, I hate myself again. Let’s meet and talk like grown-up people not to lose each other!
61. Our stupid pride can kill our great love. Only kindness and tenderness can reconcile us again. So let’s be kind and tender to each other.
62. Honey, aren’t you tired of being offended? Let’s try again from the very beginning. My name is (state your name) and I am sorry I’m in love with you.
63. Darling, I’m sorry for having treated you like that. Forgive me for causing you pain. I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry; I want to live in peace with you!
64. I want so much to hug you, to forget about abuse and resentment. I want you to excuse me, a poor fool guy. Let’s live without quarrels for many years!
65. For God’s sake, I’m sorry! (a very emotional and expressive phrase).
66. I am asking you so kind, generous, beloved and merciful for forgiveness. You and only you can certainly forgive me and make me happy. Believe me please, I regret the misunderstanding that we have had.
67. Darling, please forgive me. I’m very sorry for having doubts about your honesty. After all, you are hotter than fire for me and sweeter than honey, and this is my problem. So when I see other girls curl around you, I become jealous. But now I promise, I will try to control my jealousy.
68. I am eager to see your smiley face. I am eager to appear again in your hands it is my favourite place on the Earth. Please, forgive me.
69. I know that I did the wrong thing. But I pray for your forgiveness.
70. Forgive me if you can, but I apologize for my behaviour.
71. I swear that I did not behave like that on purpose; my hormonal changes and mood swings are to blame for everything. But I promise that I will fight it because I do not want to lose you.
72. Take me back into your arms. Look into my eyes and hug me. I want to feel it so much. I miss you, honey.
73. Sorry, darling! I am eager to put my head on your strong shoulder. I’m sorry, and I want you to hug me again.
74. I look ugly when crying and howling in pain. Now my fate is in your hands. Please, forgive me and make me look beautiful again!
75. Forgive me, my love! I know that because of my character, I am not the girl you deserve. But I promise you that I will never give up trying to become the best girl for you.
76. Since we started dating, you did everything that I asked you to do. As a last service, please excuse me, so that now I could also begin to carry out your requests.
77. I apologize for my angry messages and words. What else could I do? I have the most handsome boyfriend who other ladies would like to take away. If you love me, then please forgive me and help me to get over my jealousy.
78. It really annoys me when beautiful girls flirt with you. Since I am your girl, I cannot keep calm. But I promise that the next time I will try not to lose my temper, and I will behave with restraint. I will learn to trust you. I am begging you to forgive me. Just give me a chance, and you will see.
79. I fully admit my fault, and I want to do everything to correct my mistake. I love you! And the last time you are suffering because of me.
80. I will never forget you, and now I apologize for the evil things I have done to you. I want to light up your smile again. I do not want our story to end with a stupid misunderstanding. Therefore, I am ready to compensate my apologies not only with words but also with a shower of my kisses.
81. I love you too much to lose you. Life is like a book, where every day is a new page, completely different from another. Each of us has pages that we would like to throw away, but it is prohibited! Instead, we can take the pen and start writing a new chapter if you forgive me.
82. I know that when you hurt the person you love the most, you can hardly find words that can correct this awful mistake. That is why I am not going to apologize directly for words, but I want to apologize for the actions I have performed.
83. Give me a chance to correct my actions, and you will never regret it. You are my wife and my life. I love you, darling.
84. Please don’t hate me, but understand me!!! Now I realize that my behavior was stupid and unworthy of your good attitude towards me. Despite this, I managed to offend you, and I am deeply sorry.
85. I had no intention of hurting you. But it seems that circumstances intended to make you experience this wave of my rudeness.
86. Please excuse me for hurting you with my thoughtless actions.
87. I know that I insulted you when I talked to you in this vulgar manner. But I will do everything just to return your smile on your face.
88. I beg you, just sit down with me, look at me, and listen to my apologies. It seems to me, as soon as you see my eyes you will forgive me.
89. I apologize to you. I feel bad because you are sad. I feel guilty for the pain I caused you. I hurt you with my actions. And you hurt me with your failure to forgive me. Please, let us start from the very beginning.
90. I am happy to have the most beautiful and the kindest woman as my wife. I do not want to lose you, darling.
91. If you can’t forgive me, at least give me the last dance with you. Then you can feel the pain of my heart and the agony of my soul.
92. I want to apologize for what I have done. And to assure you that for me you are the only one! I want only you. I am sure that you have never deceived and will not deceive me. Maybe I don’t deserve you, but please, my love, forgive me.
93. I do not expect that the situation will immediately become normal. I do not even assume that you will smile to me the way you did before our quarrel. But until that happens, I will go on apologizing to my lovely girlfriend every day, every minute, sending flowers to you.
94. My apology seems brutally honest and direct in its expression. Please excuse me and stop being angry.
95. I miss you the real one. I miss everything in you, your beautiful mind and bright soul.
96. I beg you to excuse me, and I promise that from now I will no longer consider you as a kind of my property. I have understood my mistake.
97. I cried while I still had tears. Then I sobbed until my head began to ache. And then I screamed until my voice was gone. It was heartbroken because you turned away from me and we stopped talking.
98. I am very guilty. Please accept my apologies.
99. It seems you have decided to part with me. Yes, I know that you have the right to do this after those humiliations and insults that you have experienced because of my actions. But please let me make a romantic evening for you.
100. Give me one more chance. Let me in your heart again, and I will show how desperately I love you. I’m appealing for mercy, please forgive me.
Rebuilding your relationship after a hurt may not come easy, but don’t give up. More so, your relationship is unique, and would therefore need all the apologies it can get.
Be the first to apologize – whichever gender you are – and be honest about all you say. A little something to cheer about—tender your apology in bed.
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