Singleness is a phase every human would have a taste of. But for the proportion who yearn for companionship, it might seem quite timely for some to get off that stage and for the others, it might take a while.
But do you know there’s so much you can do to allay yourself of the pressure of prolonged singleness?
I’m telling you it’s nothing to lose a sleep over if you came across this article. Oh! Thank goodness you did already!
So, here are the six things you can do to turn your situation around, right into the arms of the lover you dreamed of.
1. Do not Feel Pressurized
First, you have to accept the reality of personal timing. So, cut yourself some slack.
Comparison is the mother of frustration. Be less conversant of those who tend to disrespectfully remind you of your singleness.
Know that your time will come if you graciously wait. Get your mind off your singleness first. Do not get carried away in the winds of desperation.
Make peace with this phase of your life in which there’s so much to explore from.
Put on your best smile, dream all you want and remain positive. And see your lover walk right in just when you wear a smile with your hair undulating with the wind.
2. Reevaluate Yourself
No one knows you better than you do. Hence, with honesty you can tell where you’re a hindrance to your own happiness.
You may ask yourself, “what am I doing wrongly?” Am I dressing rightly? Am I being too cold?” Would I date me?
If you ponder well on these pertinent questions, you’d have truthful answers to them and be halfway to the altar.
3. Extend Your Search
Have you tried out a dating site? It’s ridiculous to complain of your single status if otherwise.
Now, get registered on a renowned dating site where you can meet local singles. You can be sure to be more exposed to people of like minds who therefore wouldn’t play games with your heart.
4. Be Proud of Your Single Status
The last thing you want to do now is hide your status. Rather, let people see that you’re open for a relationship. I mean, who would know that if you have a ring on your wedding ring finger?
Do not put on any misleading accessories so you don’t give prospects the wrong impression of your status. Rock your singleness with same pride there is with being in a relationship.
Honesty would work for you if you’d use this to your advantage.
Socialization is the key to meeting new people and enjoying new life. So, do not hide yourself. No matter how beautiful a chick you might be, you just have to come out of your shell first.
Have you felt the cool breezes of the beach on your skin? Ever treated yourself to a late-night dinner while enjoying the neon light of the centre part of your city? If not, then, start now!
Be more accessible! Hang out with friends. Turn up for events and just enjoy the rest of your day with the folks around you. Do this and kiss singleness a goodbye.
6. Stand Out
There’s no better time in the history of man to stand out than in his single years! Fashion sure is a great way to do that. Go shopping and get yourself lovely dresses that speak well of your personality. Wear a new hairstyle for a change.
Put on lovely perfumes. Enthuse people with your charm.
Using your talents to your advantage isn’t out of place either.
Allow others enjoy the wonders and beauty of the great singer, dancer, writer, or artist you might be, then see them fall head over heels in love with you.
With these few points of mine, it’s obvious to see that it isn’t so hard nor near impossible to get rid of that status. Just simply go ahead and invite the love of your life into your world and come back to say, thank you!